What if it’s real?

We are all searching for something.

Fame. Success. Power. Peace. Love.Acceptance. Fulfilment. A fresh start. A place to belong and for most…it’s a sense of direction in a world that often feels chaotic, and somewhere along that search, we come to a moment we ask ourselves …Is there a better way to live? But unfortunately…life doesn’t come with a map. Most of us figure things out by stumbling, falling, healing, and trying again and again. We chase what looks right, feels good, or earns approval…only to find ourselves exhausted or empty.

I know what it’s like to try everything: the distractions, the hustle,the silence, the self-help books even the spiritual practices that promised peace but left me feeling more empty. For a long time, I thought “the way” forward would be found in success, healing and love, but what if “the way” isn’t a method, a formula, or a feeling…what if “the way” is a person?

That might sound strange, but hear me out.

I was born into a Christian home, baptized in a Catholic church. we left Catholic Church at one point but we still ended up in a Church so all my life, I’ve been a Christian but I didn’t grow up trying to “find Jesus.” I went to Church only for the sake of it, I wasn’t even trying to become religious. I had so many questions that needed answers…I just wanted clarity. Purpose. A breath of relief. Something that felt real. And slowly,through quiet moments, honest questions, and unexpected encounters,I met Him.

Somewhere at the back of my mind,I always believed the Bible was just another novel — a book full of stories and moral lessons. Helpful…sure,  but not factual. Just good ideas… parables. All the Miracles? Resurrection? Nahhh…It all felt too far-fetched for my mind to comprehend. 

Oh how naive I was.

But then,  I watched a movie, the story of Moses, the part where God parted the Red Sea…and something shifted. I don’t know why that moment hit me differently, but it did. I was completely still, completely taken. My chest tightened.Oh I wept and then I whispered to myself:

“Wait… what if this is real?”

That moment changed everything for me. It opened the door to a kind of awe I had never known and that’s how it began for me…the hunger and desire to know more about the man “JESUS” did not come through a church service or a sermon, but through a simple scene in a movie. God parted the Red Sea…He made a way where there seemed to be no way…If God could do that, then He’s not just a character in a story. He’s real. He’s real. And if He’s real… maybe He has something to say to me, too. 

That curiosity…that hunger led me to start studying the Bible “intentionally”,  and then realized  the Bible wasn’t just a collection of parables. It was a record. A testimony. A revelation. A “truth” I had ignored and it’s gradually renewed my mind and transformed my life.

Jesus says, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matt 11:28)

I found rest. 

Jesus wants us all to come to Him. He wants us to come as we are, with all of our addictions, our mess, all our mistakes,our struggles, our heartaches, our shame, our temptations, and yes…with all of our sins. 

Jesus once said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life.” (John 14:6) 

For years I jumped right past that. But now… I see it. 

He wasn’t offering a ticket to a religion, He was offering Himself literally…as a guide for the confused, as a comfort for the broken and as a lifeline for the lost. He was offering Himself to me and to you. 

“The Way” Is For Everyone. No matter where you’ve been, how far you’ve wandered, or what you believe right now. “The Way” is open. This isn’t about joining a group, a church or pretending to believe something you don’t. It’s just an invitation. “The Way” isn’t reserved for the perfect, the holy, or the already healed. It’s for the tired, the lost, the curious and the broken. 

I know “Jesus” may not be who you expected to meet on your search. But what if He’s exactly what your soul has been trying to find?

So maybe you’re where I once was — curious, cautious, not quite sure what to believe. That’s okay. But let me ask you what I asked myself that day:

What if it’s all real?

You don’t have to figure everything out today.

Just take one step. Be open. Be honest. No pressure. No shame. Just curiosity.

And you might just discover that “The Way”isn’t a path to follow…

…but a person to walk with.


One response to “What if it’s real?”

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    BayoAdeniji

    So well explained, dear. You’ve captured the heart of the gospel in such a simple way.

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